being a social person

(the social netwwork)

it's funny when somebody said that,

"hey, I really want to be like you, you can talk with all people that I can't talk with them, not one mind with me"

or

"you can get a long with people easily"

or

"you make friend, with just... click"



really really appreciate with all that compliment. honestly, I really love meet with new people, get a long with people.
feels like a challenge for me to know other person's personality

the excellent to be a social person is that, you know have many connection and you know where to find people who likes what you likes too.

I mean, I have so much interest, in my life and I can't share my interest to just only one person, right?
you know what I mean?

I mean like.. well

if I want to find somebody that interest same as me to fashion.
I know who I'm gonna share my thoughts with

or if I want to find somebody to know where to shop some good fashion stuff, I know friends that I'm gonna call to accompany me

if I want to find somebody to know, what new R&B songs. I know who I'm gonna turn to

or if I want to update my latest info about my favourite tv show, anime, or movie. I know who I'll talk to

if I want to know the latest gossip, I know my own sources


but still, being friend with anyone, it's not simple as you might gonna get.

when you first met with new people, it's gonna be akward. you even didn't know what his/her favourite thing.

I want to share a few of my step to know about people

1. be yourself and confident

2. use your plus. I mean, if you a funny person. make a joke. or being funny to yourself. people around you will be anxious to you

3. read you "opponent" face. is their geek people, music people, gossip people, movie people, or whatsoever kind of people in this social life

4. after do number 3, then FISH! make a talk about their interest, they will be anxious to you. then talk about your interest. it's like playing kite, pull extend pull extend. it's fun

5. the last thing, is that, before you do that four steps. you must to do this first
BE A OPEN MINDED PERSON!!!
cause you have to be "I-have-more-knowledge-more-than-you" person
to impress people YOU MUST TO BE THAT PERSON!!

why? cause the "opponent" must be like. "wow" or "you know anything" or "you really smart person"


so before you want to know somebody. you have to much know anything, I mean ANYTHING. like anime, music, movie, fashion, tv show, or something that makes you more knowledge people in the social life.
cause that's the key if you want to get a long with someone new.

it's not so hard, just... don't be a closed mind people who "I-don't-care-what-people-like-I-just-care-what-a-like" person or "I-can't-like-what-you-like".
oh please, you're so pathetic. you not gonna or NEVER taste the variation of the social life

I just taste a little bit of this life

xoxo